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The LOA ask us to live in the present and focus on what we need to do now rather than dwell on the past. When a big bad event happens to us, we feel powerless, especially when we don’t have a permanent and fast solution. Instead of taking action and doing our best, we procrastinate. We wish it never happened. We spend all of our energy on negative emotions, which immobilizes ourselves to seek a solution. It takes equivalent amounts of time and energy to be worried or depressed or angry or sad; or just be happy and take action while the latter may lead me to the ultimate solutions to our problems.
The truth is the solution to our big problems may not be clear to us. We just need to commit to do what we can do now. Even if it does NOT appear to fix the problem permanently, but, by taking action, we may see some other ways which we have never thought of… Just like when we stand on chair, all the sudden, we can see something further that we couldn’t see before. Action makes us focus on finding a solution and remain focused to do our best. Sometimes many other events are happening and we may not be aware them. We assume that it wasn’t working for us then, it won’t work for us now. It may be a mistake… Don’t let your or others’ past experiences immobilize you.
Be the solution of our problems or help others in similar situations. It will help us to find our solutions quickly because we can view situations in an objective way without any emotional baggage from our past bad experiences.
Be humble. Ask and listen to others suggestions. Sometimes, you will be amazed by how many people are willing to help you. (P.S. there is a difference between waiting for others to help and being open to their advice.)
It is always good to have an open mind to find a solution. Brighten our attitude; Commit to be happy; be courageous; be bold; be open and flexible; be ourselves and follow our hearts and do it passionately. How can we be flexible? My friend Brit’s 50/50 rule is to try something new in 50% of time. Define flexible in exactly term to you. Be curious about what we are not seeing in the current opportunities.
Defeat self limiting beliefs. We wish we were smart, rich, beautiful, young, etc… I bet we can find many people who aren’t smart, rich, or…; but, yet, they achieved the goals they wanted… Think hard! Maybe we just want to find ourselves an excuse to stay where we feel safe and comfortable. Don’t get addicted to the victim mentality. By doing that, we also diminish our opportunity to get what we want. If we don’t change our current pattern, how can we expect our future to be different than our present?
Why appreciation, hope, and patience are important to LOA? When we appreciate what we have, we are likely to be in a positive mode to seek the solution. If we are negative about the situation, we are likely to focus on the problem itself, rather than the solution. When we are in need, we feel as if we were waiting for a long time and thus our mind focuses on worry. With hope and patience, we are at ease; therefore we are focusing on receiving and observing what is happening now. We will likely give the opportunity a chance and we won’t give up too quickly.
We shouldn’t waste our time on complaining or with complainers. People complaining about everything are usually self-centered. They don’t want to be responsible for their share of problems. We need to take responsibility for any event that happened to us, despite that we believe we are only responsible for 1% of the problem. If our friends are unable to keep up with their words or keep postponing the plans, we should realize that our friends are having problems with overly committing themselves. We should not just wait for them to change. We should look around for help elsewhere. But, don’t make assumptions, give them the chance to explain and give anything the benefit of doubt first.
Do not “bad-mouth” others or associate with people who “bad-mouth” others. Be positive and look for the bright side of every situation.
Why sometimes things have to go really bad before they get better?
The bad things do not happen by accident. They are created by us. Often we deny our true feeling because we are afraid of changes. We settle for less to exchange for our comfort. To the end, we are forced to do it in worser time. If you have just a little dislike in your current situation, please take whatever action you can now to fix the problems. Please do not sit there and see how things are going. Things will not get better until you take action.
What I mean by taking action, it may not be running around doing something. It can be getting in touch with your true desire and have a clear picture of what you like. Quite often, when you see things crystal clear in an unconscious level, you will just know the right way to take us to what we want.
When we notice any resistance inside ourselves, we should try to clear our confusion first. The confusion is that we don’t see the true benefit of doing it. Sometimes, it can come from fear of changes. Think thoroughly of all the challenges so we can clear your way for our true desire to shine.
Use the probability and worst-case scenario to defeat the last minute fears. What is the probability of this happening? If it happens, what should I do? Sometimes, when we are facing a big challenge, the fear will creep into our mind and we doubt ourselves. We don’t feel comfortable to take any risk to grow and strengthen ourselves.
Many times we feel like we must push very hard to accomplish our goal, but nothing happens. Sometimes it is good to “go with the flow.” Do not rush into something that is not right. Looking back on my life, there were many times that something I wanted did not come about. It is actually good that they did not happen because something better came about. Be open to better opportunities.
Be kind to ourselves and others. Be empathetic. If we did get what we want at first attempt, we just realize that we have done our best under the circumstance. If others can not give what we want, we know that they also have done their best.
Brighten our attitude. Believe in ourselves. If we don’t believe it will happen, we will not work at our full potential and not pay attention to our opportunities.
Don’t be a perfectionist. The Pareto 80% 20% rule - 80% of the tasks can be done in 20% of the time while the rest of the 20% tasks take 80% of the time. I am not suggesting you cheat on your action. You need to do things right, but, it doesn’t need to be perfect. Take care of the tasks ASAP according to your priority list. It normally takes more effort to fix it thereafter. Be productive, not just be active.
How LOA makes things magically happen? Everything in the universe is energy. There are many ways to increase your state of consciousness. In reality, our action is just keeping our mind focused on what we want. When we are in “being” state, we are capable of directing the energy to create what we want in our life without running around and chasing our tails. It is quantum physics. We all have experienced the thing we thought about and it just magically comes to us. It is not coincident, it is LOA at work.
It is important to be at ease, humble, and appreciative as well as practice hope and patience.
Believe the goodness in others. Focus on what we do LIKE, LOVE and APPRECIATE about others. Having a positive view of life, ourselves, and others will definitely help us manifest fast.
Live your life fully and freely with no attachments or expectations. The Timing is never right. Condition is never perfect. No matter how small the task, take the first step now. The small steps we take will ultimately bring us great fortune. Good luck with your “new” life.
Hint: If you are always running around doing something, it may be indicating you are a perfectionist or the priority of the tasks is not setting correctly.
